Is this how its going to be for the rest of my life??!!?

Every naptime and bedtime-30 minutes of nonstop screaming from my 2 yr old! Im tired of just letting him cry and fall asleep eventually. Im tired of the stress and tension between my husband and I. I'm tired of going through this every day!!! He refuses to go to sleep without a FIGHT. A long, grueling fight. Im over it. Im having a bad mommy moment.